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It's a toxic world, especially for our pets.

Thursday, September 10th, 2009

Toxins surround us to the point that it is nearly impossible to avoid them. Even those fillings we got as kids are toxic, leaching into our systems causing who knows what damage. Our water is so toxic that we buy bottled water hoping it’s pure, but that’s not necessarily true either.

I try to avoid toxins as much as possible and that practice carries over to my pets. As is so often the case, this enlightened attitude came about as a result of life with my four-legged friends.

My beautiful mare, Misty, developed vaccinosis after just a few years at a boarding barn that required semi-annual 7-way vaccinations. It began as an elevated temperature accompanied by swelling at the injection site. Each successive round of vaccinations brought with it a worse reaction until she developed a full-blown case of laminitis.

During this time I was diligently researching options trying to find an acceptable alternative to meet with the barn owner’s approval. (Moving wasn’t an option at that point.) Finally I found my own vet who concurred with my assessment that it was vaccinosis and prescribed no more vaccinations ever for this mare.

With that battle behind us, I expanded my research into detoxing and better nutritional alternatives to the junk food typically served at barns. It took six months to bring Misty back to health from that last set of shots, but we got there. Thankfully it wasn’t long after that I was able to purchase my own place and bring her home, safe at last from the dangerous, out-dated, ideas of that barn, no matter how well meaning.

I was reminded of this episode recently when I read the account of a beautiful, standard poodle who died horribly, painfully, after being sprayed with weed spray. From what her owner was able to piece together, she approached the fence, probably barking, to protect her puppies who were all playing in their private yard. The person spraying turned the spray directly on her in an act of incredible cruelty and stupidity. Unfortunately this part of the story was only pieced together after the fact and after her suffering had ended. It’s unlikely she could have been saved, even with immediate treatment, as those powerful toxins were inhaled and absorbed through her skin to begin their destructive work on her entire system.

RIP beautiful girl

RIP beautiful girl

Would this person have sprayed the dog in the face had he known it would kill her? Perhaps, but I’d like to think he would have made a better choice had he been educated on the dangers of the toxins he held in his hands.

Shortly after hearing this story, I came across a post from Dr. Mercola’s site about summer time dangers to our pets. While a bit late in the season, the information is still valid and worth sharing. I hope you’ll take a moment to read and educate yourselves and please spread the word. You just might save a life.

Blessings to you dear pet lovers.

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What happens to my pet(s) when I die?

Sunday, June 14th, 2009

If you have pets, from time to time you may wonder what would happen to them in the event of your death. Usually those thoughts are quickly pushed aside as too painful to think about.

The choices that immediately come to mind are:

1. Do nothing and leave their fate up to providence.

2. Set up a trust to care for them per your specifications.

3. Leave them in the care of a trusted family member or friend.

4. Have them humanely euthanized and let them accompany you to the next world like the Pharaohs of old.

Of course there are pros and cons to each of these options and the choice is further complicated depending upon the number, age, and expected life span of your pet(s).

Probably the most common is doing nothing. This option places an unfair burden upon the person handling your estate. Maybe they’ll find a wonderful home. More likely they will end up in a shelter competing with all the other homeless animals, potentially facing euthanization. Pleas for pets seeking homes after their owner dies are not uncommon.

If you are financially able, you may choose to set up a trust and specify your wishes in your will. (It is important to note that without a will pets are considered part of the estate and go to next of kin, regardless of your wishes.) In this way you can provide for your pet(s) for the remainder of their lives. You can specify the exact care they are to be given. There is still no guarantee that they will thrive without you, but at least you will have done everything in your power to provide for their well being.

Designating a trusted family member or friend to assume the responsibility may be an option if that person is ready, willing, and able to take on such a responsibility. But what happens if the pet(s) outlive this person or if their circumstances change?

I have heard more than one person state that it is their intent to have their pet(s) euthanized in the event of their (the owner’s) death. Having considered the above-mentioned options and their associated pitfalls, they have concluded that this is the best way to ensure their pet(s) well being. However, this option requires finding a vet willing to euthanize pets regardless of their age and physical state. You should also know that your request may not be legally enforceable.

There simply is no “right” or “perfect” choice. In fact the “right” choice may differ from one pet to another. So what is a caring pet owner to do?

As an animal communicator the most natural option that comes to mind is: Talk to them about your concerns and find out if they have a preference.

You may be surprised at their answers. Animals view death as simply a transition, as opposed to humans who mostly fear their inevitable passing.

Your pet(s) may not want to live without you. How many times have you heard about pets who die shortly after their owners? On the other hand, your pet(s) may not be finished with this life experience and would prefer to take their chances at finding a new, loving home. You’ll never know if you don’t ask. Plus you’ll have the peace of mind of knowing that your pet(s) were included in the decision-making process.

Please feel free to contact me with questions or to assist you in communicating with your pet(s).

Reincarnation, is it real?

Sunday, May 17th, 2009

I had no idea when I previously blogged about reincarnation that it would become one of my most popular posts. Overwhelmingly you want to know if reincarnation is real and if your pet will return to you. I can tell you that the animals have told me it is real. After their transition they choose if, when, and in what form they will return. Some come back nearly immediately, others need a recuperation period.

Rather than take my word for it, however, look to science if you will. Science has proven that living beings are at their core energy. Since energy never dies, it has to go somewhere when the physical body is used up. That leaves us to speculate on what happens to it when released from the physical, or believe the animals when they say they absolutely do reincarnate.

Let me relate to you a story of a lovely young dog I spoke with who had recently transitioned. His owner was quite distraught as he was young and it was a sudden death. She was desperate to know if he would reincarnate and return to her. In our communication he revealed that he had been with her before in the form of another dog. He was sad to leave her and wanted to return, which he had as her new puppy.

However, he also had a desire to try an experience as a german shepherd rather than the small breed dog that she preferred. He put his desires on hold to return to her once more, but he chose a short life as a compromise. He will likely return to her in another form one day but in the meantime, he may revisit other people he has loved or meet entirely new ones.

I was so struck by this conversation, having gone through something similar myself. When my old dog, Joshua, was getting ready to transition, I asked him if he would return. He promised to do so. As I grieved his loss, I asked him again after he crossed over to please return and he again promised. I believe that he did return to me in the form of my new dog, Saphyre.

But after talking with that young dog, I began to wonder if it was selfish of me to ask Joshua to return to me. What if he had other people he wanted to visit, or new adventures to experience, or what if he didn’t want to come back as a standard poodle, the breed I had decided upon? Of course he has free choice and could have made other plans, but being the amazing, kind, spirit that he was, he honored my request.

I am so grateful for these beings who freely share their love and wisdom with me and in the future will strive not to put my needs before theirs. Perhaps the best course of action is to let them know we would welcome their return, but only if and when they choose to do so.

What do you think? I invite you to share your thoughts in the comments section or contact me directly: petchatter.

Eagle Cam

Tuesday, May 12th, 2009

The Hancock Wildlife Foundation and Sidney Cam have made it possible for us to watch the progress of three eaglets and the comings and goings of their parents. For the maximum experience check in on them at various times throughout the day. I think you’ll find it’s well worth the time and effort. Enjoy!

Eagle Cam

Euthanizing a beloved pet

Wednesday, April 8th, 2009

Sooner or later if you have pets you will have to face “the decision” of euthanasia. It’s a gut-wrenching decision, but when the time comes, you owe it to your beloved pet to end their suffering.

The tricky thing is knowing “when.” We torture ourselves with all manner of questions and thoughts: “Is my pet really ready?” How can I be sure it’s time?” “Will my pet hate me?” “It feels like a betrayal.” “I can’t bear to let her go, but I also can’t bear to see her suffer.”

First, it helps to understand that animals view death very differently from humans. They understand that it is just the next step in their journey. They know that they may choose to reincarnate and experience many more lifetimes. They may also choose to return to a particular guardian.

Second, if you are in tune with your pet, you will probably know when it’s time. There will be a look in their eyes, a pleading or a peaceful acceptance. Sometimes a pet will hang on for the sake of a guardian who just can’t come to terms with the inevitable. When you can’t be sure of the signs, or if you think your pet is sacrificing a quality life to linger for your sake, you may opt to consult an animal communicator. A communicator will connect with your pet and find out what they are thinking and feeling.

Third, making “the decision” when the time comes is a sacred duty that we owe to our beloved companions. It is the final loving gift, one your pet will not soon forget. If you want them to reincarnate and return to you, let them know. Your gift will be remembered and they will be more likely to choose to spend another lifetime with you. After the transition, you may wish to check in on your pet with the assistance of an animal communicator. This is an opportunity to get any remaining questions answered and it can be very therapeutic.

Not long ago I communicated with a lovely dog (I’ll call her Helga), who had very recently been euthanized. Her guardian was distressed and second guessing her decision. She was very concerned about how Helga was doing and whether she understood or was angry. When I communicated with Helga she had some surprising things to share:

“I was really confused at first. It happened pretty fast then all of a sudden there was no pain and I was here in this beautiful place. It’s warm, lots of sunshine. Lots of other four leggeds to meet and greet. I’m planning on catching up with all my old friends and family. There are so many it’s going to take me a while to find and catch up with all of them. Good thing I have a keen sense of smell so I can more easily track them down. I thought they were all supposed to be lined up waiting for me.  But they seem to be waiting for me to come to them. I guess they’re giving me time to adjust because it was such an abrupt transition.”

“Do you know that I can have a job if I want or just lie around? I get to choose. I sure do miss my family though. It’s good there are lots of distractions so that I don’t spend too much time missing them. I know I’m supposed to move on but I can feel their sadness and it pulls at me. Please let them know I would have stayed longer if it was possible. I had a good life and they should be very proud of the life they gave me. You know there are a lot of animals here who can’t say the same. I am one of the really lucky ones.”

“Please let my family know that I will keep an eye on them. I will never forget what they did for me. It will be my privilege to watch over them until they join me here. I’ll make sure to have a spectacular gathering of friends when they arrive and we’ll have a huge reunion. Kisses!”

When I relayed this message to the guardian, she explained that Helga had taken an unexpected turn for the worse and “the decision” had to be made immediately. There was no time to prepare Helga or themselves. It was just a quick trip to the vet and she was gone.

The comforting part of this message was that in spite of less than ideal circumstances, Helga was thriving, happy, and sending not just love to her family but kisses. She was very grateful to be out of that old body and on to her next adventure. If the guardian asked, I have little doubt she would choose to reincarnate very quickly and return to her.

Not everyone can allow themself to believe that our pets reincarnate let alone return to us. That’s ok, the animals understand. They do not judge and have the capacity to accept whatever comes their way. We all must walk our own path so be at peace and trust that everything will work out as it should. Life is oh so much richer when we have our faithful animal companions to share it with.

Whale Communication

Thursday, March 5th, 2009

Sometimes animal (or interspecies) communication is so obvious that you don’t need a communicator to translate. Such was the case of a humpback whale upon being rescued by divers. You can be sure this lady whale will long remember those brave divers. Read all about it on the Intelligent Life blog.

A day in the life of an animal communicator

Thursday, February 19th, 2009

So you think being an animal communicator means my animals always behave? LOL, I wish. Yesterday they were very naughty. I thought my readers might get a kick out of reading what it’s like when my animals misbehave.

It began when the dog ate my headphones. Totally destroyed, gone, finito! She let me know loud and clear that she didn’t appreciate being left out of the cooking extravaganza I was in the middle of. (I had been inspired to make egg rolls and cold sesame noodles, which takes some amount of concentration.) She watched patiently for a while, then quietly slipped away to engage in destruction.

Later, when it was time to feed the horses, she chased the chickens and made a lot of racket which upset the horses. They were already in high spirits as we were in the middle of a heavy snow storm. Her antics meant some of them did not eat their meal that day.

Just getting them to come in and go to their assigned places was a challenge. The girls all lined up politely at the gate, but the boys… they were in the middle of their “stallion” posturing. Lots of rearing, bucking, snorting and even jubilantly rolling repeatedly in the fresh snow.

It would have been a joy to behold if I wasn’t freezing with snow pelting me in the face. (Although I couldn’t help but marvel at their athleticism and the beautiful prancing performance.) I longed for a camera to record it, but the precipitation would have smeared the lens so I gave up that thought.

As I tried to be patient, I was thinking that being an animal communicator you’d think I could just reason with them telepathically. No, it doesn’t work that way. First, it’s more difficult to communicate with my own animals. Just a fact that many communicators experience. Knowing them so well makes it harder to clear my thoughts and let theirs through. Second, I have to be in a calm, meditative state to successfully communicate telepathically.

Six large horses in high spirits with one human who’s visibility is hampered by protective clothing is not conducive to a meditative state! If you know anything about horses, you understand what a dangerous situation that can be. They are so in the moment that there is a lack of recognition of the human being vulnerable to injury.

Looking on the bright side, it was a good opportunity to practice raising my energetic output to create a protective bubble around myself. It all ended well. Today the sun is shining, and my husband loved the egg rolls and cold noodles!

What about you, readers? Any exciting stories about your naughty animals you’d  like to share?

Do Animals Have Souls?

Wednesday, December 24th, 2008

It’s a question that has been pondered by a great many people for a very long time. Opinions abound for and against, recently demonstrated in an email making the rounds purportedly of competing church signs.

I have to wonder if those against have spent any time gazing into the eyes of a beloved pet? If they had, how could they fail to see it, that spark of energy that all living beings have inside them?

From my conversations with various animals there is no doubt, that animals do indeed have souls and are most eager to communicate with us. Some are funny, others serious, many are possessed with a wisdom that takes my breath away.

Recently I came across an article that delves into this subject at length, complete with scientific research. It’s a four-part series and well worth the read. Enjoy and please come back and share your thoughts.


Do animals remember their dreams?

Monday, December 22nd, 2008
Rusty who dreams about eating.

Rusty who dreams about eating.

Thank you, Amy from Australia for this interesting question. Here from the collective wisdom of the animals is the answer:

Their world is much simpler and they do not need the subconscious prodding that humans get from their dreams. So although they do remember them, they do not spend much time thinking about them. Their dream state is in an entirely different context than yours. Their dreams contain no great lessons they are simply pleasant frolics and whatever past times they find most enjoyable.

They may dream of a loved one who has gone from their lives and upon waking spend some time reflecting upon the precious memories. Since they sleep more erratically than humans, they do not have the same intensity of dreams. They are more short fragments and most often forgotten upon waking. Even those that are remembered are not recognized as dreams in the same way that people understand what a dream is. It’s more like a lovely memory that drifts across their consciousness.

Herd Dynamics & Compassionate Herdmates

Friday, December 19th, 2008

Like many parts of the country, we are getting a serious winter storm today. With a layer of ice already on the ground, the heavy, wet, snow has made it even more likely to inadvertently go ice skating.

When I checked the horses, they were happily eating hay at the west end of the pasture, sheltered by trees while snow piled up on their backs. As the storm grew in intensity, they decided to migrate to the east end of the pasture where they have a run-in shelter. That is all except Merlyn, the  16.2 Thoroughbred.

In order to get to the run-in they must cross over a small stream. Merlyn was convinced that the ice was too bad to cross. He paced and pawed and snorted as he watched the herd now comfortably waiting out the storm in their shelter. This went on for more than an hour.

Finally, Arlo, the mini stallion, accompanied by Jasmyn, headed back up to Merlyn. Arlo calmly trotted right across the stream and went up to Merlyn and invited him to wrestle. Then he turned around and went back across the stream. I could hear him shouting “Come on, it’s not so bad. If I can do it, you can do it.” Emboldened by his friend, Merlyn hesitatingly jumped across and rejoined the herd at the run in.

The entire episode was incredibly fascinating. It was a clear demonstration of the camraderie that exists in the herd and their ability to reason and figure out a solution.

I knew that Arlo and Merlyn were buddies but I had no idea the depth of their relationship. What a privilege it was to witness.